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This should be hung in every dementia care home and in hospitals where there are patients with dementia.
If I get dementia, I’d like my family to hang this wish list up on the wall where I live. I want them to remember these things.
1. If I get dementia, I want my friends and family to embrace my reality.
2. If I think my spouse is still alive, or if I think we’re visiting my parents for dinner, let me believe those things. I’ll be much happier for it.
3. If I get dementia, don’t argue with me about what is true for me versus what is true for you.
4. If I get dementia, and I am not sure who you are, do not take it personally. My timeline is confusing to me.
5. If I get dementia, and can no longer use utensils, do not start feeding me. Instead, switch me to a finger-food diet, and see if I can still feed myself.
6. If I get dementia, and I am sad or anxious, hold my hand and listen. Do not tell me that my feelings are unfounded.
7. If I get dementia, I don’t want to be treated like a child. Talk to me like the adult that I am.
8. If I get dementia, I still want to enjoy the things that I’ve always enjoyed. Help me find a way to exercise, read, and visit with friends.
9. If I get dementia, ask me to tell you a story from my past.
10. If I get dementia, and I become agitated, take the time to figure out what is bothering me.
11. If I get dementia, treat me the way that you would want to be treated.
12. If I get dementia, make sure that there are plenty of snacks for me in the house. Even now if I don’t eat I get angry, and if I have dementia, I may have trouble explaining what I need.
13. If I get dementia, don’t talk about me as if I’m not in the room.
14. If I get dementia, don’t feel guilty if you cannot care for me 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. It’s not your fault, and you’ve done your best. Find someone who can help you, or choose a great new place for me to live.
15. If I get dementia, and I live in a dementia care community, please visit me often.
16. If I get dementia, don’t act frustrated if I mix up names, events, or places. Take a deep breath. It’s not my fault.
17. If I get dementia, make sure I always have my favorite music playing within earshot.
18. If I get dementia, and I like to pick up items and carry them around, help me return those items to their original place.
19. If I get dementia, don’t exclude me from parties and family gatherings.
20. If I get dementia, know that I still like receiving hugs or handshakes.
21. If I get dementia, remember that I am still the person you know and love.”

🤔 Navigating an Autism Diagnosis🤔

After an autism diagnosis, it's essential to approach changes thoughtfully. Experts advise against making multiple adjustments simultaneously to avoid overwhelming the individual.

Here’s some expert advice for those recently diagnosed: https://www.huffingtonpost.co.....uk/amp/entry/dont-ma

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It might be tempting to go full-steam ahead after a diagnosis, but Dr Selina Warlow warns to take things slow.
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🏃‍♀️ Lifelong Exercise: A Shield Against Dementia? 🏃‍♂️

New research reveals that maintaining an active lifestyle, especially before age 50, can lead to better brain health at 70, potentially protecting against dementia.

Check out the benefits of lifelong exercise here:
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💼 Rising Costs in Social Care Recruitment 💼

Social care leaders are raising concerns over a 120% increase in sponsorship fees for overseas staff, potentially impacting workforce sustainability.

What are your thoughts on these significant changes?

Read more here: https://www.communitycare.co.u....k/2025/01/28/social-

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Employers will have to pay £525 to enable overseas staff to obtain visas in future , up from £239 currently, adding to pressures on sector
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Supporting Young Carers During School Holidays

By implementing these strategies, families can help alleviate the added pressures that come with extended breaks, ensuring that young carers maintain a healthy balance between their caregiving duties and personal well-being.

🛡️ Unpaid Carers: The Backbone of Social Care 🛡️

The Health and Social Care Committee is examining the vital role unpaid carers play in our society and their immense contribution to the economy.

Understanding these dynamics is crucial for future reforms.

Read more here: https://committees.parliament.....uk/committee/81/heal

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ARFID is characterised by an extreme aversion to certain foods based on their taste, texture, smell, or appearance, or an intense fear of eating due to past negative experiences, such as choking.

🌷 Parkinson’s UK Refreshes Brand to Be Inclusive for All Affected 🌷

Parkinson’s UK has updated its brand to better represent and support everyone affected by Parkinson’s disease, emphasising inclusivity and accessibility.

👉 Discover the changes: https://www.charitytimes.com/c....t/Parkinsons-UK-refr

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🎭 Actress Pauline Quirke Diagnosed with Dementia 🎭

Beloved actress Pauline Quirke has been diagnosed with dementia and is stepping back from her acting career. Our thoughts are with her and her family during this time.

👉 More details: https://www.alzheimersresearch....uk.org/news/actress-

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