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I'm tired of not having any time for me and I have no one to say that to. If I say it to anyone in my family I get well this is what you wanted. We told you to put her in the nursing home. If I ask my brother for help his response is I'm being selfish. I need a weekend, just one weekend with out pee in the floor and wet clothes in the washing basket.

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Lizzy72

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I honestly relate with your situation. If you have the means to place her, frankly, you should. You both will have a much better quality of life.
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Ashley1984

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Lizzy72 I can't do that to her. After working for 5 years as a mental health therapist in a nursing home dealing with dementia patients o just can't do that to her. Not unless I have no other option. It's not the care that she might receive its listening to the staff discuss them and complain about taking care of them. I guess at this point I know too much and am not comfortable placing her in a nursing home.
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You are from from a selfish person.
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D

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You are not a selfish person far from it.Can you get any respite or extra help in?
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