Managing Sudden Changes in Behaviour

Sudden shifts in behaviour can stem from physical health issues such as constipation, pain, or urinary tract infections. When a person becomes more agitated, confused, or distressed, it's essential to consult the GP. A healthcare professional can investigate potential physical problems, conduct necessary tests, and review the person's medication, including non-prescription drugs.

See Things from Their Perspective

Always strive to empathize and see situations through the lens of the person with dementia. Individuals facing dementia may encounter challenges in comprehending their surroundings, causing confusion and fear. While their behaviour may be puzzling to you, it often holds significant meaning for them.

Consider the person's life history and experiences. Understanding their past can provide valuable insights into their current actions. For instance, if someone used to work night shifts, their inclination to stay awake or go out at night might be rooted in that past routine.

Recognise that their behaviours are attempts to alleviate distress and regain a sense of well-being. These actions serve as a form of communication or self-help. Instead of becoming frustrated, try to decipher the underlying message they are conveying.

Respect the person's beliefs and thoughts, refraining from arguments. If, for example, they express the belief that they need to collect their children from school, avoid contradicting them. Instead, engage them in conversation about their children or redirect their focus to a comforting activity. By approaching their perspective with understanding and compassion, you can create a more supportive environment for individuals navigating dementia.

Dealing with Communication Challenges

People with Alzheimer's and related dementias often encounter difficulties in communication due to memory issues, agitation, and anxiety. As a caregiver, it's crucial to approach these situations with empathy and understanding, so here are some tips to help support your loved one.

1. Reassure the person and maintain a calm tone. Listen to their concerns and frustrations, showing understanding if they express anger or fear.

2. Recognise the importance of personal space to enhance comfort.

3. Integrate quiet moments and engaging activities into their daily routine.

4. Keep cherished objects and photographs in their living space to evoke a sense of security.

5. Remind the person of your identity without using phrases like "Don't you remember?" to avoid causing distress.

6. Foster a two-way conversation for as long as possible, respecting their efforts to express themselves.

7. Employ distractions, such as familiar books or photo albums, when verbal communication becomes challenging.

Seek Help and Support

If sudden changes persist and health concerns are ruled out, seeking assistance from mental health professionals may be beneficial. Conditions like depression can contribute to behavioural changes and may be managed through medication or non-drug approaches.

At We Talk Care, we understand the complexities of caring for individuals with dementia. Join our supportive community to share experiences, gain insights, and find comfort in the company of those who understand your journey